FInding out what works to keep your mind "busy" is something you have find. Evreyone is different. When I seperated from my wife, I buried myself in my work to keep my mind busy.
Other methods are reading, movies, games, friends, family, and such. Other ideas would be join some kind of club (bowling, pool, chess, whatever) something that forces you to get out and spend time doing something else.
Avoid pills, alchohol, or drugs as they may mask the problem, they cause more problems in the long and short run.
I highly recommend avoiding jumping into another relationship right away, wait until you have dealt with this one first.
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